Behind the glamorous Instagram photos and TV fame, Laura Anderson is just like many of us—trying to be the best mum she can be to her daughter, Bonnie. While she’s known from Love Island and now works as a radio presenter on Capital Scotland, Laura's biggest joy is her role as a mother. Juggling a busy career with raising Bonnie is tough, but it's the everyday moments with her daughter that mean the most to Laura.
In this exclusive interview with Mother&Baby, Laura opens up about the challenges of solo parenting, the lessons she’s learned along the way, and how Bonnie has reshaped her understanding of herself and her priorities.
What were some of the most challenging moments during your first year of solo parenting?
Finding the right childcare is something many parents in the UK struggle with, and Laura is no exception. She faced the added stress of juggling a new job with the task of finding childcare for her daughter, Bonnie. Laura explains, “Trying to find the right childcare before starting my new job as a breakfast radio host was one of the most stressful two weeks of our year so far. I was panicking about how I was going to manage everything. It’s a daunting task, especially when you’re a new mum and you want to make sure your child is in the best hands.”
Luckily, Laura’s mum stepped in to help, providing a much-needed lifeline. “I feel so lucky to now have something in place with my mum. She’s been a rock for us. I don’t know what I would do without her. It’s a huge relief knowing Bonnie is with someone who loves her just as much as I do while I’m at work. I know not everyone has that kind of support, and I’m incredibly grateful for it.”
What has Bonnie taught you about yourself that you didn’t know before becoming a mum?
“Bonnie has taught me that it’s okay to be a single mum. I was so worried before she was born, thinking I wouldn’t be able to handle things on my own. I had all these fears about whether I’d be enough for her or if I could do this by myself. But we’re doing great—she makes me smile every day, and I hope I make her happy too. Bonnie has shown me that I’m stronger than I ever thought I could be. She’s taught me to be patient with myself, trust my instincts, and focus on the love we have instead of the hard parts. She’s my little miracle, and I’m learning and growing every day.”
A lot of us can relate to Laura’s experience of discovering strengths we didn’t know we had through motherhood. It’s a good reminder that while parenting can be really challenging, it also helps us grow and become more confident.
What are some of the most important life lessons you’ve learned from being a solo parent for a year?
“I’ve learned that I can handle anything that comes my way and that our happiness really comes from within. No one is coming to save you—except maybe your mum! This year has shown me that being resilient is crucial. I’ve had to dig deep and find strengths I didn’t know I had. But I’ve also seen how much love and support I have around me. I’ve never felt more confident in myself or happier with my life. I’m really proud of what I’ve overcome this year while raising a happy, healthy little girl. It hasn’t been easy, but it’s been worth it. I’ve learned that asking for help is okay, taking time for myself is important, and that I can do this. We all can, even on the toughest days.”
How do you manage to balance your demanding job at Capital Radio with the responsibilities of being a single mum?
“Honestly, I’m not sure—I’m just figuring it out as I go! Some days are a bit of a blur, and I try to take things one step at a time. I’m often tired and feel guilty if I don’t have the energy to play with Bonnie. That mum guilt is real and tough to deal with. I try to plan my work around her naps and make sure we get out of the house once I’m done with work. It’s important for both of us to get fresh air and a change of scenery. I usually go to bed early, around 8 p.m., so I don’t have much time for myself or socialising, but right now, my focus is on providing for her and being fully present when we’re together.”
Laura’s honest take on juggling work and parenting hits home for many parents trying to balance their careers and family life. Her approach—prioritising her daughter’s needs and managing her time effectively—reflects the everyday reality of many of us working parents. It’s a constant juggling act.
What strategies or routines have you found most effective for staying organised and ensuring quality time with Bonnie?
Staying organised is crucial for Laura, and she relies on a solid routine to keep everything running smoothly. She explains, “I stick to a strict schedule for Bonnie that comes before anything else. Being organised is essential—I’m always checking my calendar and planning ahead. I try to be present, whether I’m at work or with Bonnie. It’s not easy, but having a routine helps. Bonnie knows what to expect, which makes things easier for both of us. I make sure to set aside special time just for her, with no distractions, so she knows she’s my top priority.”
Looking back, what has been your proudest moment as a solo parent over the past year?
Laura’s pride in her role as a mother is evident when she talks about Bonnie’s progress.
“Seeing Bonnie happy every day is my biggest achievement. Watching her hit milestones so quickly—she’s really bright. People light up when they see her, wherever we go. Sometimes I can’t believe she’s mine—we have such a special bond. Every time she smiles at me or reaches out for a cuddle, it makes all the hard work and sleepless nights worth it," she says.
Her story is a reminder that the rewards of parenting, like seeing your child happy and thriving, make all the challenges worthwhile.
How do you maintain your personal well-being and mental health while juggling the demands of single motherhood and your career?
For Laura, keeping her well-being in check is key to managing her busy life. She shares, “I talk a lot with my family and friends, and that really helps. I’m also pretty open on social media, which is therapeutic for me and reminds me I’m not alone. Professionally, I might celebrate with a glass of wine, and with parenting, I just kiss Bonnie all over. I focus on the positives and try to take things one day at a time. I’m learning to be kinder to myself and to appreciate the small wins.”
What has been the most surprising thing about your journey as a single mum that you wish more people understood?
“There’s just not enough hours in the day! Finding time for a shower or to do anything for myself is often last on the list. Time management is everything. I’m always thinking ahead and planning our next move. There should be more places with childcare, like nail and hair salons—ha ha. But seriously, the biggest surprise has been how much I’ve grown as a person. I’m stronger, more resilient, and more patient than I ever thought I could be. I’ve learned to cherish the little things, like a hot cup of coffee or five minutes of peace. Those moments are precious.”
Laura’s experience serves as a reminder to us all that even the small, everyday moments of self-care and appreciation are incredibly valuable amidst the busyness of parenting.
About the author
Anne Lora Scagliusi is a Senior Digital Writer at Mother & Baby. She is a Scotland-based journalist with over a decade of international writing experience, specialising in women’s health, maternal mental health, and wellness. Her work has been featured in Vanity Fair, Marie Claire, and Glamour and has appeared on several Vogue global editions. She is mum to a one-year-old bambino and lives between Italy and the UK.