Sex toys aren’t just for those night’s when you find yourself alone and horny. Incorporating some of the best sex toys for couples into your sex life can spice up your relationship, especially if this baby-making business is getting a little tiring or if you want to add some life back into the bedroom after having kids. They're also great for helping you get in the mood when having sex for the first time after your c-section or vaginal birth.
Introducing sex toys can be intimidating for some couples, and while you might find it fun from the get-go, your partner may take a little time to ease into it. The first thing you should do before investing in sex toys is to discuss the idea with your partner.
Thanks to the internet, there’s no need to awkwardly enter a sex shop in the local shopping centre in the hope that you don’t run into a work colleague.
Sex toys are readily available online, so why not both sit down together for a different kind of online shopping experience and find toys that will satisfy both of you. Don’t worry - they will turn up in very discreet packaging, so you won’t need to worry about any funny looks from the postie.
The best sex toys
If you’ve decided now is the time to have some fun in the bedroom, we’ve rounded up the best sex toys on the market for you to browse.
![Partner Couples Vibrator](https://images.bauerhosting.com/affiliates/sites/12/motherandbaby/2021/11/Partner_Couples_Vibrator.jpg?auto=format&w=1440&q=80)
Ideal for both solo and couple use, this gadget provides three vibration modes and seven pulsation modes to intensify sex so it feels great for both of you. The thinner end sits inside the vagina and the thicker end lies on the clitoris to massage you both at the same time.
![Lovehoney Position of the Week Cards](https://images.bauerhosting.com/affiliates/sites/12/2022/10/Lovehoney-Position-of-the-Week-Cards.jpg?auto=format&w=1440&q=80)
www.lovehoney.co.uk
With positions ranging from simple to challenging, the Position of the Week cards are a great way to spice things up in the bedroom without introducing toys.
![Durex Intense Vibrations Ring](https://images.bauerhosting.com/affiliates/sites/12/motherandbaby/2021/11/Durex-Intense-Vibrations-Ring.png?auto=format&w=1440&q=80)
www.boots.com
This vibrating cock ring sits at the base of the penis and vibrates to provide you both with hand-free pleasure. It lasts up to 20 minutes and can be used all over the body for stimulation everywhere.
![Ann Summers Monogamy Couples Board Game](https://images.bauerhosting.com/affiliates/sites/12/motherandbaby/2021/11/Ann_Summers_Monogamy_Couple_Board_Game.jpg?auto=format&w=1440&q=80)
Ease yourselves into sex toys with this fun board game. With over 400 seductive ideas and 50 fantasies, it’s a great way of getting used to play in the bedroom and spicing things up a little.
![Caistor Hall Hotel](https://images.bauerhosting.com/affiliates/sites/12/motherandbaby/2021/11/LELO_TOR_2_Intimate_Ring.jpg?auto=format&w=1440&q=80)
This vibrator features six different vibration patterns and is designed specifically for improving couples' sex lives. It sits comfortably around the base of the penis, helping to make him bigger, longer, stronger for shared satisfaction.
If you’re looking for something that won’t accidentally start vibrating and can be discreetly kept in your bedside table, this small bag of sex dice can make for an adventurous night in the bedroom. With 36 different erotic actions to perform, including oral sex and anal play, you can really explore your sexual needs.
![Kinx 4 Play Couples Kit Bullet Vibrator with Attachments](https://images.bauerhosting.com/affiliates/sites/12/motherandbaby/2021/11/Kinx_4_Play.jpg?auto=format&w=1440&q=80)
This sexual foreplay kit comes with four different heads that fit onto a vibrating bullet which can be used as a finger vibrator or even as butt plugs before having penetrative sex. Each waterproof, silicone sleeve is designed to powerfully stimulate for maximum pleasure.
If a sensual massage sounds like your idea of heaven, this set is great for making that massage extra seductive. Made using a blend of sensual essential oils, it also comes with a wooden massage tool to help release any tension.
The Poet
![The Poet](https://images.bauerhosting.com/affiliates/sites/12/2022/11/The_poet.jpg?auto=format&w=1440&q=80)
60 per cent of women prefer clitoral stimulation. Why not try this exciting device to spice things up before intercourse? The Poet is the world’s first clitorally inclusive stimulator that comes with three sized mouth pieces to support that the clitoris comes in different shapes and sizes. This is a great device that you can use along or with your partner.
Review: " This is a game-changing device. It has helped to spice up our time in the bedroom and makes me look forward to becoming intimate with my husband."
Couples sex toys FAQs
When's the best time to have sex?
If you're trying to conceive, apparently the best time to have sex is early in the morning, before 7:30am.